“WHEN THE PAIN FEELS UNFAIR”
(Job 8:1 – 10:22)
“I will say to God, Do not condemn me; let me know why you contend against me.” – Job 10:2
Have you ever been falsely accused or misunderstood, feeling you couldn’t defend yourself? The frustration is magnified when it seems God is silent during your suffering. This was Job’s reality. After losing everything, Job faced accusations from his friend Bildad, who insisted that Job’s suffering must be due to sin. Job, however, knew he was innocent and wrestled with the painful silence of God. His cry echoes the frustration many of us feel in times of undeserved suffering: “Does it please You to oppress me, to spurn the work of Your hands?” (Job 10:3).
In seasons of undeserved suffering, God calls us to trust His character, even when His ways are beyond our understanding. From today’s reading, here are a few considerations and action steps to endure false accusations and undeserved suffering.
1. Anchor Yourself in God’s Character, Not Circumstances
Job’s suffering made him question God’s actions, but he never stopped believing in God’s justice and sovereignty. Though he couldn’t understand why he was suffering, Job’s faith in God’s ultimate goodness remained unshaken.
- Challenge: Remember that God’s character is unchanging when life feels unfair. He is just, loving, and faithful, even when our circumstances don’t make sense.
- Action Step: Write down three attributes of God you can cling to during tough times. Pray over them daily as a reminder of who He is.
2. Be Careful with Words in Others’ Suffering
Bildad assumed Job suffered due to sin and offered unhelpful, harsh advice. Instead of compassion, he delivered condemnation, adding to Job’s pain.
- Challenge: When others are hurting, choose empathy over judgment. Be a presence of comfort, not critique.
- Action Step: Reach out to someone who is suffering this week. Listen without offering explanations, and let them know you care.
Prayer…
Father, we come to You with the frustrations and questions that arise during seasons of suffering. Teach us to trust in Your unchanging character, even when we cannot understand Your ways. Help us offer compassion to those who are hurting, reflecting Your love and grace. Strengthen our faith to endure trials and rest, knowing that You work all things for good in Your perfect time. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
About our Author
Pastor James M. Armpriester, Jr. worked as a molecular biologist at Procter & Gamble for ten years before becoming a pastor. With over thirty years of experience in ministry, he has been heavily involved in church planting and church health. He has served as a district director in Ohio and North Texas and has been a national leader in curriculum development, coaching, and consulting for church planting and revitalization. Pastor Jim has been the lead pastor of several churches, including New Hope in Cincinnati, Ohio, First Assembly of God in Niagara Falls, NY, and Transformation Life Church, which has multiple campuses in New Jersey.
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